SEX Bucket List Ideas That You Should Try With Your Partner

50 Things That Belong On Your Sex Bucket List

Let's be actual: It's simple for a long-term relationship to turn stale, which is why I've created an official roundup of all the things that belong in your sex bucket checklist. You're gonna wish to bookmark this baby.

First, let's overview of why you need to have a sex bucket list in the first place. Spicing up your sex life helps hold your complete relationship fresh and thrilling, says Janet Brito, Ph.D., a medical psychologist and licensed sex therapist in Honolulu, Hawaii. "Novelty makes couples long for each other."This content material is imported from {embed-name}. You could possibly discover the identical content material in one other format, otherwise, you could possibly discover extra data, on their web page.

That mentioned, mixing up your sex routine is one thing you must do for *you,* says Brito. If you are not down to attempt one thing out, that is cool! Just ensure you're frequently checking in with your partner to ensure they're satisfied with the sex you've been having together, too.

Now for the grand reveal: Keep studying for 100 (sure, 100!) things that belong in your sex bucket checklist. Enjoy!

1. Have sex all over the house

Brito suggests taking sex beyond the bedroom. That includes the couch, the kitchen table, and, well, anywhere else you can think of! Uh, just make sure the kids and/or roommates are gone, obvs.

2. Be a teen all over again

Okay so this isn't necessarily full-on sex, but finding a parking spot and making out in the car like teens can be super fun, says Brito. Not into PDA? Just keep the car in your driveway.

3. Read erotica to each other

Find the steamiest erotica you possibly can and read it out loud to each other to set the mood, explains Brito. Feel like it might be a li'l awk? That's fine, laughter can also lead to sex.

4. Have phone sex

Yeah, seeing each other is great. But hearing your partner's sexy AF voice on the other end of the phone, telling you all the naughty things they'd be doing to you right now? Also great.

5. Watch porn together

Watching something sexual can be the perfect way to get ~in the mood~ for actual sex. Choose a video together, or each of you can pick your own to share.

6. Give anal sex a shot

Yes, butt stuff can be fun if you do it the right way. Take things very slow, have looots of lube ready to use, and enjoy.

7. Try out different kinds of lubes

Speaking of lube, there are tons of lubes out there: all-natural, silicone-based, CBD, you name it. Try adding different ones to your repertoire (each kind adds something different), and see which you like best.

8. Play with ice cream

Use ice cream for temperature play by taking spoonfuls and circling them around each other's erogenous zones. Plus, it'll taste good (and look super sexy) when you lick it off.

9. Role play

It's fun to be someone else for a little while. Ask your partner what kind of role play they might enjoy and choose a night to act out your parts. And no, it doesn't need to be super complicated. Like, maybe you two could pretend to be strangers that just met at a bar or while on a beach vacay. It's truly up to you.

10. Buy a sexy board game

Game night, but make it hot. Don't know where to find one? No worries. Women's Health compiled a pretty kick-ass list of sexy board games that'll heat up the bedroom.

11. Get wet and wild with shower sex

Shower sex isn't as simple as it looks, but if you're willing to give it a try, the payoff can be major. Start out by getting hot and steamy under the showerhead while kissing, then you can move things to the bedroom when you wanna finish.

12. Try ASMR sex

What is ASMR sex, exactly? The short version is that it's all about finding an auditory or visual trigger that turns you on.

13. Moan a lot during sex

Did you know that moaning during sex can make you have a better orgasm? When you moan your throat opens, your breathing slows, and your pelvic floor muscles relax, which can lead to a totally mind-blowing finish. The more you know!

14. Take up ice play

It's like that whole ice cream trick, except with ice cubes. A bonus? Cubes give you more control over where you run those ice-cold temps along the skin, and there's way less cleanup involved.

15. Do all the dirty talk

If dirty talk isn't already a part of your routine, it's time to add it in ASAP. Dirty talk may feel unnatural at first, but once you get into it, it makes everything you're doing that much sexier.

16. Have sex via webcam

If you're in separate places (or if you just feel like being in separate rooms, hah), try giving your partner a sexy show on FaceTime (or whatever video app you use). You guys can masturbate at the same time, take turns, talk about all the things you'd do to each other, and so much more.

17. Pick out some vibrators

Let's face it. Using sex toys like vibrators while you're getting it on just makes sex that much hotter. Shop for one (or two... or three...) together to ~build up some anticipation~ and then try them out in the bedroom the **minute** they arrive.

18. Break out some costumes

They're not just for Halloween! If you haven't added sexy costumes to your role play sitch yet, it's time to do so now. (Just picture your S.O. in that hot doctor outfit!)

19. Have a sexy scavenger hunt

Create your own scavenger hunt and make each clue a sexual act, says Brito. You can hide different hints around your home, each with a sexy task like 'makeout for one minute' or 'plant a few neck kisses down your partner's neck.' The prize at the end? Well, that's up to you.

20. Buy a pair of handcuffs

A pair of fluffy handcuffs are the perf way for you and bae to add some light bondage play to your routine.

21. Stock up on flavored condoms

Protection is always key. But why not also add some flavor (literally) to your condom use so that protection tastes yummy, too?

22. Play with hot wax

I've already addressed the ~chilly~ side of temp play, but what about the hot? Here's exactly how to drip melted wax (safely!) onto your partner (or onto yourself).

23. Sext up a storm

Texting all the #dirty things you want to do when you see each other next is the ultimate version of foreplay.

24. Give blindfolding a try

Use a tie, an extra t-shirt, a sleep mask, or invest in an actual sexy blindfold. The anticipation of your partner running their hands and mouth all up and down your body but not knowing when or how they're going to do it is super hot.

25. Maybe choking is for you

A little bit of (consensual!) choking, gagging, and breath play can be waaaay fun. Just make sure you have a safe word and establish boundaries beforehand.

26. Share your sexual fantasies

C'mon, everybody's got a few. You and your partner can swap fantasies and then decide if, where, and when you want to give them a shot, says Brito. Communication is everything.

27. Have birthday sex

This is your moment to make sex even more special than usual. Maybe you can even surprise them by walking into the room wearing your birthday suit (wink wink).

29. Have sex in every state

Make it a goal of yours to get it on while visiting every state in the country. (Major props to whoever achieves this one.)

30. Do it in your backyard

Got a yard all to yourself? Lay down a blanket (or don't) and get to #werk. Bonus points if you have a pool!

31. Have morning sex

Rolling over and getting it on first thing in the morning is all kinds of awesome. Is there really a better way to start your day than with an orgasm?

32. Build a fort in your living room

Build a fort in your living room. Once you're done, you can celebrate by cozying up and getting it on inside.

33. Make sex last as long as you can

Ever heard of tantric sex? It promotes intimacy with deep breathing, connection, and delayed orgasm. Basically, you try doing everything you can to make your sex session last as long as possible. Check out these tantric sex tips for beginners if you're intrigued.

34. Buy some butt plugs

If you've never tried a butt plug before, now's the time. You'll never know if you don't try! Do some online shopping with your partner to see which kind you both might like. Trust me, there are sooo many options.

35. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos

Add some dildos to your sex toy inventory (because why not?) and put them to good use.

36. Have sex by the fire

Lighting a fire will definitely set the mood. Make things extra romantic by adding some wine and sexy PJ's to the mix, too. Don't have a fireplace? Pull up a fireplace video on Youtube, turn on your heater, and do your best to make-believe.

37. Do it on a washing machine

Make sure your machine is on so you get to feel all those vibrations.

38. Get out the whipped cream

Draw designs on each other with the spray bottle. Then comes the fun part: eating it all off!

39. Put on a sexy show

Sit your S.O. down in a chair and offer up the lap dance of their life. Once you're done, you'll be all over each other.

40. Make a sex playlist

Everyone knows that a playlist can make or break a sexy experience. Spend time with your partner crafting the perfect playlist, press play, and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

41. Recreate your fave movie sex scene

Just be honest. It's from Twilight.

42. Recreate your fave book sex scene

Again. It's from Twilight, isn't it?

43. Recreate your fave TV show sex scene

I have a few in mind. (All of which are from Normal People.)

44. Do it in a (private) pool

Please don't try this one in public, hah.

45. Netflix and chill

This one is truly a classic. Either put on the steamiest show you can imagine (or just press play on the series you're currently watching), then see how many episodes you can get through before you succumb to sex.

46. Do it while fully clothed

You've had sex while naked tons of times. Try keeping as many articles of clothing on as you can. Not being able to fully touch each other will be very sexy. Promise.

47. Try the bathroom floor

Picture this: You're having shower sex (or a steamy bathroom make out) and you're both ready to finish off. Take things to the rug and get that final orgasm.

48. Have sex to the beat of the music

You already made your sex playlist. Now, grind against each other to the beat of the music. (Choose your songs wisely here, lol. No one wants to pull a muscle.)

49. Masturbate in front of each other

Sure, masturbation can be a private thing. But it's also super hawt to watch each other get off, too. It's also a great way to learn more about what your partner likes and doesn't like.

50. Only have oral sex

Penetration gets all the love but really, oral's where it's at. Focus only on oral tonight.

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